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How to disarm manipulation and gaslighting, personally and politically
We all know that domestic violence is a common occurrence in Iowa and elsewhere, but statistics are sobering, with one in every four women having experienced it in their lifetimes. Some 1.3 million women are victims of such violence each year. Women aged 20-24 are at greatest risk. Tactics of abusers involve manipulation and gaslighting. […]
Annoyed: How to keep everyday irritations from wrecking your day
We live, work and learn in an increasingly aggravating environment. Robocalls rank among the top petty annoyances. We may overlook one or two, but several in a day can trigger ire. Americans receive close to 4 billion robocalls per month, on track for 47 billion robocalls by the end of the year. The content of […]
Guerilla theater, stunts and pranks make a mark on politics
In 1967, activists Abbie Hoffman and Jerry Rubin staged one of the greatest political pranks of all time when they entered the New York Stock Exchange and threw dollar bills to the traders on the floor. Free money, seemingly from the heavens, sparked reactions. Some rushed for the bills. while others waved or shook their […]
Philosophy provides tools to deal with polarization
For more than two years now, the news has focused on vaccines, masks and mandates, often couched in political rhetoric resulting in polarization. The COVID pandemic has divided friends, families and colleagues at the same time it has amplified the frail condition and nature of being human. We need to set aside politics, at least […]
Everyday temptations bedevil us in personal and political life
Temptation happens in the gut, not in the brain, eliciting a jumble of magnetic emotions, luring and repelling us simultaneously. It can be as innocent as reaching for a piece of chocolate cake, hesitating, and then pushing away from the table. Or as guilty as embezzlement, reaching into a cash drawer, hesitating, and then stashing […]
Debate about use of “Dr.” disrespects expertise, fuels distrust of science
Jill Biden, educator and first lady, and I share the same nickname with students: “Dr. B.” We both have terminal degrees, hers an Ed.D. in educational leadership from the University of Delaware and I, a Ph.D. in English from Oklahoma State University. I’m called “Dr. B” because my students have a difficult time pronouncing my […]
Political sectarianism fuels vaccine resistance
Emotional intelligence is the ability to fathom our feelings so as to reduce stress, enhance reasoning and perceive emotions in ourselves and others so as to enhance awareness and mental well-being. The ability to process emotions has many benefits. We can interact prudently and mindfully with others, communicating effectively, overcoming challenges and defusing conflict. The […]
Hoaxes and scams take an emotional toll
Countless people have lost millions of dollars to online hoaxes and scams, but the biggest collective loss concerns trust. Losing trust hurts us more than money ever could. Internet deceptions afflict everyone, from a child awaiting a pet to a pensioner awaiting a Social Security check. Let’s deal with pets first, as these scams have […]
How can we keep our composure when everyone is so angry?
Everyone seems angry, cheated, entitled, resentful, deprived — new American norms afflicting every walk of life — from viral Karens and road-raging Kens to berserker travelers and conspiratorial lawmakers. What has happened to Americans in the past decade? Many blame fake news. Others, social media. And some say we’re responding psychologically to real depredation and […]
How often do you lie? It’s probably more often than you realize
This summer, I contributed a chapter on falsehood to an influential book edited by Alex Grech, founding director of the 3CL Foundation. Alex also teaches new media at the University of Malta. The book’s title puts our global situation in perspective: “Media, Technology and Education in a Post-Truth Society: From Fake News, Datafication and Mass […]
After a tsunami of negative emotions, can we find saving grace?
In the past few years people have weathered a tsunami of negative emotions, triggered by political strife, economic hardship and global pandemic. How many have you experienced in the list below? Fear Anger Disgust Rage Annoyance Sadness Loneliness Melancholy Social media spread those emotions among the populace. The Brookings Institution used Twitter data to document […]
Bourdain film illustrates ethical issues with voice cloning, media manipulation
In a new documentary about the late celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain, he is heard discussing his life shortly before committing suicide. “You are successful, and I am successful, and I’m wondering: Are you happy?” Questions arose about Bourdain’s voice. He wrote those words in an email, and people were wondering how the filmmaker purloined an […]